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Season of Love

Research the meaning of the advent candles and you will find slightly different meanings for the candles.  For the most part, the candles represent similar concepts presented in different ways.  But the second candle has a wide variation of meanings attributed to it.

One meaning for this candle is love and I choose to focus on this one.  Why?  Because I believe the whole season of Christmas –Advent, Christmas Day, the 12 days of Christmas –everything about this season has to do with Love.  We could call it the Season of Love.

Christmas starts with God loving us.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life

He gave us the ultimate gift out of love.  And because He loved us so much we love Him.

1 John 4 19 We love him, because he first loved us.

Jesus says if we love Him that we should keep His commands.  And what does Jesus command.

John 15

12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.

 Christmas is the celebration of the day God showed us how much He loved us by sending his Son.  Jesus lived the perfect life and then died on the cross for  our sins all out of love.  We love God because He first loved us and what does the object of our love request of us?  He asks that we love one another.
Exercise
Do you love others in your life, not just your family, but the strangers who pass your way?
Do you love as Christ loved you?
Write your thoughts about God’s love for you,  and what it means to love someone as Christ loves you.
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Light of the World

In the mist of preparing for Christmas, a Jewish holiday exists.  Hanukkah, the feast of dedication, celebrates the miracle of light.  The symbol of this holiday is the Menorah.  A candelabra designed by the Almighty.  And the fact the Lord designed the Menorah is not the miracle which is amazing.

Israel suffered under an evil ruler who interfered with Israel’s worship of the Lord. He even desecrated the temple.

A small group of men in Israel rose up and defeated the ruler’s mighty army.  Then, the people of Israel cleared the temple and made it ready for worship.  When they were ready to rededicate the temple to the Lord, they discovered they had only enough oil to burn the candles for one day. The men trusted the Lord.  And the oil lasted eight days.  This was the time they needed to prepare more oil for this sacred purpose.

Each year, the Jewish faithful celebrate for eight days in memory of the miracle.

Jesus celebrated Hanukkah.  It is right there in the 10th book of John.

22 And it was at Jerusalem the feast of the dedication, and it was winter.

23 And Jesus walked in the temple in Solomon’s porch.

Interesting, Jesus came to Jerusalem to join with others to rejoice in the miracle of God making one day’s worth of oil last for eight days.  All around Him people celebrated the miracle of God, but only a few realized that the Light of the World walked among them.
John 8
12 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.
Exercise.
In this time of Christmas celebration, write in your journal about the light of the world.
Write about when you stepped out of darkness to walk in the light.  Document that great miracle of light coming into your life.

If you still walk in the dark, ask Jesus to be the ruler of your life, to forgive you of your sins and to guide you in the way that you should go.  Trust Jesus to be your Lord.

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Hung By The Chimney With Care

Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house


Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.


The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,


In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there.

 

Wonder why kids would hang stockings hoping for Saint Nicholas to soon be there?  We must venture back to the early forth century and visit our Bishop of Myra once again.

 A poor man in Myra had three daughters, but not enough money to pay their dowries.  Today, that doesn’t seem like the worst problem in the world, but back around 300 AD, these three girls could not marry if they did not have a dowry.  They would likely be forced into slavery or prostitution if they did not find husbands.

 Nicholas, took gold from his personal accounts, slipped into their homes and left bags of gold coins in each girls socks.  The socks hung by the fire to dry.  All of this was done in secret, but his secret eventually was found out.  Stories of Bishop Nicholas, later Saint Nicholas, spread after his death.

 In honor of his memory, children left their stockings by the fire on Christmas Eve. Parents slipped oranges, apples and nuts into those stockings to surprise the kids.

 Nicholas understood the scriptures

Matthew 6.

Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven.

Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth:

That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.

 

 

Exercise

Have you ever helped someone without their knowing you helped them, without anyone knowing you helped that person?  Describe how you did it.

Make a list of all the people you are aware of who are in need.  Maybe they have huge financial needs that you have no way of fixing, but list everything.

Now look at the list.  What could you do to help one person on your list?  Maybe you can’t give them the money they need to fix their problems, but you could buy a bag of groceries and leave it on the porch for them.

Or could you spend your afternoons sitting with some lonely elderly shut in?  They would know you were spending time with them, but don’t let them thank you are “helping them”,

Maybe you just find a child who never has any school supplies, or cloths and you send them periodic care packages in the mail as their secret santa.

Or you take in an elderly person’s garbage cans each morning so they don’t have to do so.  Mow their grass when the weather warms.  Or shovel their snow if you live where the white stuff falls.

The purpose here is not the secrecy; it is about doing for others without expecting any reward or recognition.  You care about their dignity and their self respect.  It is about them and not about you.

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Ho Ho Ho

Today was Saint Nicholas Day so it makes sense to discuss the tradition of Santa Claus.

Let’s think about the Santa we know.  A jolly fella who sits in the mall, makes appearances in the parades and tells all the good little kids that of course they will receive all the toys they desire.  Then on Christmas eve he travels the world in a sleigh with rain deer sliding down chimneys depositing lots of toys.

The real Saint Nicholas lived from 273 to 343 and died on December 6.  Born to wealthy parents who died when he was young, Nicholas moved to live with his uncle.  Early in his life, Nicholas learned to love Christ.  He became a monk and then the Bishop of Myra.

Nicholas determined to use his inheritance to help others.  He is known for being a giver to those in need.  He spent part of his life in prison for his faith, but was released when Constantine released the Christians.

Saint Nicholas became a popular saint in many countries across Europe.  Different traditions grew around gift giving on his Saint day.

These traditions morphed into the crazy materialistic Santa gift giving we know today.

Journalling questions.

1)  Do you think of Christmas as a time to give to others in need?  Is this season more about what is in it for you or what you can do for others?

Acts 20

35 I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.

2)  You possess many resources that include money, time, talents, love.  Are you willing to give all you have if God asks it of you.  When people in real need appear in your life, do you find reasons to not help them or do you give what you have to help them.  Saint Nicholas gave all he had both financially and of his time.

The following was what Jesus said to the Rich Young Ruler.  The young ruler walked away because he loved his money more than he loved Jesus.  Saint Nicholas chose to give all to help the poor and to spend his life following Jesus.  What is your answer to Jesus?  Think through all the areas: money, time, talents, love.

Mark 10

21 Then Jesus beholding him loved him, and said unto him, One thing thou lackest: go thy way, sell whatsoever thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, take up the cross, and follow me.

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Hear Them Ring

Bells, church tower bells, hand held bells, bells on bob tails, bells, bells everywhere bells.

Nothing is more Christmas than bells.  Yet, history rings loud with bells well before Jesus. Bells sounded a warning, or signaled people to come together.

The early church had no tower bells or loud bells to identify where they were meeting.  No, they would use little hand bells in the early days to indicate they were starting a service, but drawing attention was not high on their list of things to do.  For the first few centuries, they faced off and on persecution for their faith.

Then the Emperor Constantine declared Christianity to be acceptable and the churches started adding bells to indicate when special events would occur.  They built buildings with bell towers to ring out for events like Christmas.

As caroling started growing in popularity, some carolers would ring bells as the music for the singers and to draw attention.  The bells became more and more a part of the Christmas traditions.

But today, the bell ringers we think about most with the season stand outside of stores ringing their hand held bells.  Cold weather or hot, rain or snow, these men and women hold their posts from Thanksgiving until Christmas. The bell rings as we walk past.  If we drop a coin, we hear a Merry Christmas in reply.

Over a hundred years ago, one man saw the need of the poor in his town of San Francisco.  He desired to find them food for Christmas.  This one man found a pot and stood out asking people to drop coins in it to feed the needy at Christmas. He collected enough to feed over a 100,000 people that year.
Now similar pots are positioned all over our country and others who care about the poor stand outside of stores ringing a bell to draw attention to the need for the poor. Captain Joseph McFee and his Salvation Army pots have feed millions since the 1890’s

Today, we think of Christmas when we hear those bells ringing.  And when we think of Christmas we should think of the poor and needy.

Matthew 25

34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:

35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:

36 Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.

37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?

38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?

39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?

40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Prayer:  Lord help me to see those in need.  Help me to know how to help in a healthy way.  Guide me to a person who cares for those in need.

Meditation:  When I face Jesus will he see me as a sheep who cared for Him when he was hungry, sick or in prison. Or am I a goat?

Action:  As I see people in need, visualize them as if they are Christ, before deciding how to respond.

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Stripes On Our Door

The next tradition started later, but has really taken off in later years.

The 19th century version of our current Advent Calendar was white chalk marks on the wall.  They marked a line for each day counting to 24. A second variation was 24 candles attached to a surface.  A new candle for each day.  Now we have printed calendars, books, trees, and a million other versions of the same idea.

The purpose is to remember each day that we are in a time of waiting for the arrival of Christmas.  But it is just as important to remember every day that we are waiting for Christ’s return.  In the business of the world, we lose focus.  The Advent calendar forces us to stop for a second or a few minutes and think about the coming of the Lord.

This year, if you have an advent calendar, when you open the slot or place an item in the pocket, don’t just think about the first coming.  This year focus on the second coming of the Lord.

Jesus said in Mark 13

32 But of that day and that hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels which are in heaven, neither the Son, but the Father.

33 Take ye heed, watch and pray: for ye know not when the time is.

34 For the Son of Man is as a man taking a far journey, who left his house, and gave authority to his servants, and to every man his work, and commanded the porter to watch.

35 Watch ye therefore: for ye know not when the master of the house cometh, at even, or at midnight, or at the cockcrowing, or in the morning:

36 Lest coming suddenly he find you sleeping.

37 And what I say unto you I say unto all, Watch.

Exercise Questions for your journal

Are you watching for Jesus return?

If Jesus returned to day, do you belong to him?

Would he find you living for Him?

Do you love God more than anything or anyone?

Do you love your fellow Christians as Christ loved them?

Do you love people who might hate you?

Do you see feed the hungry, care for the sick, the poor, the prisoners?

Are you watching for Jesus or are you living as if He will not return?

 

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Our Hope

Several Eastern Orthodox Churches practice a time of fasting for forty days prior to the Nativity.  Western Churches include the four Sundays prior to Christmas as a period of preparation called Advent.

In the middle ages, they started the idea of using candles in a wreath to symbolize this time of preparing the believer’s heart.  The wreath contains three purple and one rose candle. A purple candle is lit on the first Sunday of Advent.  This represents our hope in the promises of God.

For just as God promised a baby would be born of a virgin, Christ has promised to return again.

Isaiah 7:14 Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.

And God kept his promise

Luke 1:27
To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and thevirgin‘s name was Mary.

In fact, the birth of Christ fulfilled hundreds of prophecies regarding the Messiah.  God’s faithfulness in keeping his promises to such perfection in the birth of Christ provides the foundation of our hope both in the promise of salvation through the blood of Christ and that one day our Lord will break the eastern sky and return to earth.

Titus 2:13 Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ;

14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.

Exercise

Do you hope for Jesus to return?  Or are you actually leery of the idea?

 

What promises of God do you have hope in?

 

Set up a wreath in your house and light the purple candle. Remember the promises of God.  It doesn’t have to be Sunday.  This is about preparing your heart.  Write down promises of God that you specifically hold special and re-read them each day this week reminding yourself that God keeps His promises.advent wreath

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Waiting in Anticipation

Advent does not represent the Christmas Season.  That season starts on Christmas and goes forward for 12 days ending with the Magi’s presenting presents to the newborn king.  Advent is a time of preparation and waiting for the promises of God.

Two thousand plus years ago, the Jewish faithful waited for the promised Messiah.  Prophecies from hundreds of years before told of a King who would also be a High Priest.  This Anointed One, Messiah, would come to rescue the people of Israel.

Decades and centuries passed from the time of the prophesies and doubts edged into the hearts of many.  But a few faithful waited never doubting he would come.  Many thought the idea of a Messiah was fantasy or wishful thinking. Yet, a few clung to the prophesies and waited for the one promised.

Simeon loved God and believed the prophesies.  This man waited for the promised one.   Simeon differed from others of his time in one way.  The Holy Spirit promised this righteous man that he would not die before seeing the Messiah.  Simeon waited assured that before he died he would see the answer to the countless prophecies.

One morning, the Holy Spirit led Simeon to the temple.  And there at the temple he saw a man and woman holding a newborn baby.

He walked towards them asking to hold their child.  Taking the baby,Simeon knew he held the promised one. He lifted the child and praised God.

Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace, according to thy word

For mine eyes have seen thy salvation,

Which thou hast prepared before the face of all people;

A light to lighten the Gentiles, and the glory of thy people Israel.  Luke 2: 29-32

Simeon had 306005_10200105707514706_754460279_nprepared his heart for the day of the Messiah through prayer and living for the Lord.  He desired to see the one promised and God honored that desire.  Today, we spend Advent thinking about Jesus’ first arrival.  We study the prophesy fulfilled by his birth.

But this should also be a time of contemplation and prayer regarding His second coming.  Spend time searching your heart to determine if you are ready for His second coming.

Luke 21:27-28

And then shall they see the Son of man coming in a cloud with power and great glory.

And when these things begin to come to pass, then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh.

Exercises

How do you think you should spend this time of preparing for Christmas?

Are you anxiously waiting for His return?

Suggested Activity for the season: Each morning of this Advent season, lift your head to heaven and pray the last words of Revelation 22:20

Even so, come, Lord Jesus

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What is in a Date

Shakespeare wrote

What’s in a name? that which we call a rose

By any other name would smell as sweet;

I ask you what is in a date.  When we celebrate a birth date or anniversary, does the exactness of the date matter or does it only matter that we take a moment to remember the event?  We savor the specialness of what occurred and the ‘when’ just acts as a road mark to remind us to deliberately pause on specific occasions to remember.

No one alive today knows the exact day or month of Jesus’ birth.  By the year 200, several dates were argued as correct.  These dates included August 28th, May 20th and March 21st adjusted from different calendars to today’s Gregorian calendar plus the two finalists.

January 6 in the East and December 25th in the West eventually became the prominent choices for celebrating Jesus birth.  Early on, the January dates represented a celebration of several events.  These included the wise men presenting their gifts to Jesus, the baby being taken to the temple, the Baptism by John.  Eventually, the birth came to be included in this grouping.  Today, many still celebrate the 6th of January as the day of Christ’s birth.

In the west, the tradition of Christmas on the 25th solidified and eventually was established by the Roman Emperor Constantine as the official date of Jesus birth.

The question becomes less about what is the exact date the babe entered the world, and more about how you honor this date.

Over the next few weeks, we will study the traditions and the customs of Christmas.

In this season, we will see Christmas trees, and angels and Santa Claus everywhere we go.  The point of this study is to find their original Christian meaning.  Let’s dedicate ourselves to learning how they became a part our our traditions.

When we see the lights, the trees, the angels, let their history remind us of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  As we study about astonishing acts of love by those who loved the Lord, let it challenge us to similar acts of love.  When we see how the ancients created new ways to tell others about Jesus and those methods morphed into our modern decorations, let us be challenged to look for ways to also tell others about Jesus.
Many Christians from days gone by believed recognizing the events of Jesus birth were important.  They focused the believer’s thoughts on how Jesus become flesh and how his birth fulfilled prophecy.

 

Let us commit to doing the same over the next 25 days.

 

John 1

10 He was in the world, and the world was made by him, and the world knew him not.

11 He came unto his own, and his own received him not.

12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.

14 And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.